How do you mend a broken Heart?
May 31, 2010 | 17 Comments
How do I explain this to my children…..to myself….after 14 years…it’s over. He never loved me. How do you stop loving someone who doesn’t love you?
The best way to get over it is to find something else to occupy your time and thoughts so that you don’t think about it.
Get out and do things to keep your mind off of him. Take community classes or join a softball team, bridge club.
This is a good time to get involved in some projects you may have been putting off.
If you have to tell your kids why their father left that’s a little harder. It might be better to stay vague on the reasons for it.
When would be a good time to stop trying to win your ex back?
April 11, 2010 | 11 Comments
I have been trying to win my ex back and with that said with my other question i asked before this post to see if she is over you or still wants to get together.
When would you guys stop trying to win her back and just move on?
We have not been together scince august and im still trying.
ehh.. sorry sounds so confusing.
Pretty much what im tyring to say is how long would you try to win her back before you give up
Thanks
oh and noted we have been together for a year and a half…
Since August? Ha, wow, it’s been a month (I say that sarcastically). That’s not very long at all. It comes down to what you broke up for and the way she feels about you now. If you did something wrong (cheat on her, hit her, fight with her one time to many etc), leave it alone. Apologize, let her know you want to work things out and then leave it alone. If she decided she’s had enough of you, leave her alone. Matter of fact, in general, just leave her alone.
If you’ve been constant in her face talking about wanting to work it out, that will only make her mosre solid in her decision to move on. At this point, she KNOWS you want to get back together. Leave her alone.
Personally, when someone breaks up with me and I want them back, I’ll let them know once or twice (through attempts at having conversations) and then stop trying. I do not chase people around. So stop chasing her around (there’s a good chance she’s just enjoying watching you do that) and see what happens. She’ll either come back or she won’t. Don’t sit there and hold your breath either. If there’s another girl you like, now’s the time to start getting to know her. Don’t ever sit down and wait on someone you’re getting no response from.
How do I go about getting my ex back as I still love him so much?
February 28, 2010 | 12 Comments
Try to remind him gently about your good time, don’t let him feel that you can’t live without him, some kind jealousy might help.
How do you win your ex’s heart back?
February 16, 2010 | 2 Comments
How do you win your ex’s heart back subtly if they know you so well they know when you are attempting to when them back? And how can you do this on the phone if you don’t see your ex anymore? I know I could win him back if I had the money to go home and see him but I want to be able to do it over the phone.
Ok, here is an approach that works very well…
First of all, it’s ok if your ex knows you’re open to the idea of getting back together. The main thing is not to pressure him in any way. If you do, his natural reaction may be to pull away from you.
Give him a call and invite him to get together some time. No pressure, just a casual get together to do something you both enjoy. During your time out together, don’t talk about the relationship, how much you miss him, etc. Just have a good time, be really postitive and upbeat.
Don’t spend the whole day together. Just an hour or two tops. You be the one that ends the "date" early. Let him know you had a good time and maybe you can do it again sometime. Under no circumstances stay the night together, sleep together, etc.
The idea here is to allow him an opportunity to reconnect with the positive energy that attracted him to you when you guys first met.
There is an article I read that goes over this in more detail. I listed the source below… good luck!
How to tell a girl you want to get back together and you won’t break her heart again?
February 6, 2010 | 1 Comment
I was with this girl 4 a couple of months we had a good time got on well. We split up coz i dumped her as well started falling out a lot. I want to get back with her, i think she still has feelings. We only talk by text and email atm. so how could i tell her what i feel and would like by text??
Coz i still love her and want another go at things
Thnx
Ask her about her love life and if she responds something that would mean she still has feelings for you tell her you miss her. You miss the times you two were together and you think you’ve been a jerk for breaking up with her.
It depends what she’ll respond but you could ask her if she wants to meet up for a drink or something one day to talk and stuff. If she says yes you could talk to her about old times and getting back together or just try at first to get her to trust you again. Be a good friend. I don’t think you should push the relationship right away. Just show her you care about her. 
Don’t do it though if you aren’t serious about loving her and you think you might get bored by the relationship easily again. Don’t hurt her again.
Good look,
xoxo
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