How To Win Back Your Ex?
April 28, 2010 | 6 Comments
Ok so i went out with this guy for a few month and before we did we fought and stuff but once together we didnt. he said i was is first love and stuff. I broke up with him because i had this feeling he was cheating and using me because he would never let me see his phone and would always ask for nudy pics ( i never sent any!). He always was clingy and i knew he liked my bestfriends too! So after a few month of not being together i realized i CANT get over him. i dated other people too. But i want him back but he has a gf, and im happy hes happy but i wish he was happy with me.
What can i do?
Besides all the bad things i mentioned he was really sweet. Like he always held my hand (even infront of his friends). always asked my opinion. walked me to class, carried my books.
He even met my parents
I know, I understand your pain. And that you want back that guy that you loved, and yet you know hes happy and don’t want to ruin it. But hes not a good guy. Guys only act like that if they’re hiding something, and you even KNEW that he liked your friends. Even if he ever did break up with his girl, do you really want THAT back?? You have to remember, and recognize the reasons that you broke up with him over. Hes not a good guy, and even if he was, he was cheating on you, he showed all the classic signs. And I bet even though you didn’t put it down, that he started dating this new girl right away. That’s not a guy u want. Hes extra bagage that you can do without.
It will be a long hard road, but you will get through with it. No matter how many people you date, it won’t go away at first. So I’d resign from dating anyone in the mean time till you really like them, because you don’t want to hurt them.
It will go away after time. But please promise me that you won’t date him. Only bad things will become of it.
How do you cope with a broken heart?
March 18, 2010 | 4 Comments
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 1 year and 3 months now. He was my first love, first everything. Our relationship really hit rock bottom when a couple weeks ago he’s been cussing at me and ignoring my phone calls for about a week. I didn’t know whether he was having some problems of his own and wanted to keep it to himself. He’s not the cheating type because of his history and i’ve known him for a while. But I just assumed now that we are broken up since my calls are never returned. Now he left me all alone. He was my best friend. Because of him now I don’t really have any friends. I work and go to school but I just don’t find the motivation to do anything anymore. Everyday I call him so much and all I do is cry. I don’t know why I call him even though I know he won’t pick up but I’m just so heart broken. I love him so much and I now time will make me forget him but how do I cope with my broken heart right now?
It is hard like someone you love died , but you must pull yourself
together and seek new grounds of relationships. You see you didn’t
die and therefore you must find happiness again. You can do it with
prayer and constant fortitude of it will be okay and you will fall in love again with someone else…. You can’t heal by calling him every day and crying your heart out… Maybe you should move away and start over again. What ever it takes you must do it for your own health and worthiness. And, yes you are a very worthy person and should find the best… He was not the best according to him!!! God Bless You!!!
How do i heal a broken heart that lost their first love by death? is it possible? he’s afraid of getting close?
March 3, 2010 | 1 Comment
Lost their first love by death how to heal.
that’s so sad! time heals everything.
How many times did you get your heart broken before you truly found love?
February 13, 2010 | 3 Comments
So my question is how many times did someone break your heart before you finally found someone who didnt?
Well personally I was hurt the most from my first relationship. You know what everyone says… first love.. bleh. Then after that one I dated a few guys but didn’t really fall head over heels for them thus I broke up with them. Then the second/last time my heart got broken was my boyfriend before the one I have now. Even though I was the one who broke up with him it still hurt, a lot. Now I have found my one and only. We’ve been together for 20 months now. Most of it was long distance believe it or not. It was hard but we made it through, I’m moving in with him this month
. yeah
but then again everyone’s life is different.
How long does it take and how do you mend a broken heart?
February 6, 2010 | 8 Comments
It’s been a year and I still have times of depression.
I’m not sure whether this girl was your first love, or just a serious relationship, but I have been in your shoes.
I dated a guy for about 2 years. He was my first love, not first boyfriend. After being abused verbally,emotionally, and once physically I was at my wits end and decided it was best for me to get out. I’m not gonna lie, it was hard. I mean, I loved this boy more than anything and he was everything I had hoped for. But when he changed, I knew it would never be the same. So, I left. It was about one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. I was heartbroken for months, and often cried myself to sleep.
After over a year of being broken up, he is still trying to call and at least be my friend (with benefits) but I won’t allow it. I will always have love for him, but as far as being in love and thinking of him that way, I’m done.
Bottom line is, you are young I’m sure. Don’t let this one relationship get you down. I was down for too long and then someone else came along. He swept me off my feet and we have been dating for 11 months. Life is too short. Get out, meet new people. If you have her number in your phone DELETE it and get rid of any of those pics on your dresser or in your wallet. Being heartbroken is one thing, but you will get over it, it’s been a year, you need to get out and meet new people.
People change, people move on. It’s just a part of life, so don’t let it ruin your life, instead look at what you had with this woman as a learning experience and let it better your relationships you will have in the future. Good luck!



