Are the chances are higher getting back with your ex if your friends?

March 27, 2010 | 7 Comments

Ok people, From experience, stories or advice do you think that if your still friends with your ex, theres a greater chance that you may get back together??

The reason I’m asking this is because I am still friends with my ex, she broke up with me late last year and I still have feelings for her, I’m thinking of quiting our friendship because I don’t want to hold back my feelings and I know she doesn’t want to get back with me.

but yeah, Do you think that if ex’s remain friends there is a stronger chance that they’d get back together?

thanks :)

i actually dont think staying friends would give you a better chance of getting back together. I always think if you stay friends its just keeping you at arms length. you dont get the chance to miss each other. as the saying goes you on realise what you had untill its gone. you may not be together but your not gone completely. i should no me and my boyfriend split up on friday. and i never new how much i love him till he has gone. we agreed not to talk as it would make it harder and thats when you realise how much you need them and how much they mean to you. by you still seeing her you and her and not giving yourself chance to miss each other. just say to her being friends is to hard as you still have feelings for her and maybe if you cant be together then you shouldnt contact her. make sure she knows you still want to be with her. giver her time to think and miss you. she WILL contact you it may take weeks or months. like they say if you love someone set them free. if they return they were always yours if they dont they never were.
good luck
xxx

How do I win my ex girlfriend back?

March 18, 2010 | 5 Comments

My ex girlfriend and I were goin out for 5months til she broke up with me because she said she it wasn’t working out for us and that she thought she’d have a better chance with another guy. We’re still pretty good friends now and I really want to get her back. What should I do to get her back?

Listen. First of all, you’re still friends with her. That automatically puts her off. She’s trying to find someone new, and she knows you’re still hanging around waiting for her to fall back in your lap. Ain’t happening, son. It’s needy and sad.

If you want to get her back, you need to learn some proper advice from proper men – forget all this ‘just be her friend and she might come around’ crap. She’ll only ever come around to cry on your shoulder about her new, more exciting boyfriend. If you don’t like that, then, you can’t be her friend – simple as that.

It’s done, and you really have a snowball in hells chance of rekindling this relationship. To be honest, the best chance you have is to stop hanging around, and just stop talking to her – as a friend, or otherwise, and get on with your life and get a new girlfriend. If your ex smells the coffee and comes around later, you can re-evaluate how you feel then, or tell her where to go.

Get My Ex Girl Back – How to Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back by Preparing yourself

February 23, 2010 | 2 Comments

Get My Ex Girl Back – How to Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back by Preparing Yourself

Maybe you have split up with your girlfriend and is feeling quite upset now. You still like her very much and would really hope to win your girlfriend back. But is it really possible? Do you still stand any chances to win your girlfriend back?

Well, while no one can tell you that you will definitely succeed, you can still do something about it. The fact is that if you don’t do anything, your chances of success is probably zero, assuming that your girlfriend is not making any effort to get back together with you.

But if you do something, provided you take the right action, you will have a much better chance to win your girlfriend back.

Winning your girlfriend back can be very difficult if you keep on making mistakes that worsen your situation. Therefore, the natural step you should take is to avoid those mistakes in the first place.

Those mistakes are in fact very common among many guys and it is very easy to make those mistakes. To avoid making those mistakes, the best way is to know what they are.

There are simply too many mistakes than we can cover in details in this article. So what is important now is that you know what the common characteristics of those mistakes are and why people tend to make those mistakes.

Just to illustrate with two examples. Calling your girlfriend over and over again and arguing over the break up. These are the two most common mistakes that are being made.

Why? Because they are all signs of desperation. Desperation will only tend to push your girlfriend away. The reason why people tend to make these mistakes is because they seem to be the logical thing to do.

You don’t agree with the reasons given for the break up, therefore it is logical to argue over the break up. You called your girlfriend but she doesn’t pick up the phone. Therefore, it is only logical that you try calling her again and again.

Unfortunately, when it comes to relationship, you don’t want to be too logical because the logical things are usually not the right things to do.

In order not to create unnecessary obstacles in front of you, it is important to know what those common mistakes are so that you will be able to avoid them and thus increase your chances to win your ex back.

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You will also learn how to reverse the situation if you have already done those things that should NEVER be done.

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what are the chances of getting back with an ex actually working?

February 2, 2010 | 3 Comments

she found her rebound. i’m moving on, still hurting a bit, no contact ever, but i still want her to regret.

If your relationship recently ended, I know how you must feel, as if your insides are being torn apart, as if the future is dark and ominous, but understand that these feelings are temporary, and a good first step is to understand why you relationship ended and what you can do to heal the wounds with your ex.

If you or your ex cheated, the important concept to think about is – why? Some men (and women!) are dogs, and you should have respect for yourself if your partner truly didn’t care about you enough to commit an act such as adultery. However, it’s vital to consider when the turning point occurred. Why did your ex cheat on you? For men, it may have been that the male didn’t feel admired by the woman, for example. For women, she may have not feel appreciated, and the lack of respect she felt was satisfied by another lover.

If you and your ex constantly were fighting – ask yourself what the true reasons behind the constant fighting were. Many times we are fighting about small issues when there are larger more sensitive issues at the stake which for whatever reason we feel uncomfortable talking about. Did your relationship end because there was a lack of honesty and one member resorted to this kind of passive aggressive behavior?

Cheating and fighting are the two most common reasons why people break up. However, there are several more less obvious reasons which are vital if you’re interested in attracting your ex back again, or if you just want a better chance with your next partner.

Don’t hesitate to find the right information for your situation.

What would give me the best chance of getting my ex bf back…remaining friends or cutting contact?

December 12, 2009 | 4 Comments

My ex and I broke up after 2 years and he wants to be friends. I want him back. I love him so much. What would give me better chance of him wanting me back…being him friend and remaining in contact or cutting off contact? He said he’d rather have me in his life this way than not have me at all. I dunno….its hard for me to be friends cause i want him back and be in a real relationship again.

Here is a great article on how to get your ex back check it out if you want to: http://www.exbackguides.com/

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