How to Get Your Girl Back Without Looking Like a Loser
How to Get Your Girl Back Without Looking Like a Loser
Regardless of how much pain you’re in after your girlfriend dumps you, and no matter how much you’re desperately in need of her…you can’t let yourself look like a desperate fool when you try to get her back. Here are some tips for you on how to accomplish your goal of getting her back without being a total schmuck.
Getting her back can be kind of a game…you play the right cards and you’ll get about what you want out of it. There are certain things you can do to achieve certain results, and knowing these can mean the difference between begging her to take you back and her begging you to take her back.
Instead of rushing to her and staying by her every move (like a desperate loser), back off. Do the opposite of being there all the time, even though it’s probably your first impulse to do otherwise. Cutting contact completely will force her to deal with life without you as you deal with life without her. Loneliness will hit her as hard as it hits you, and she more than likely will start to question whether or not she made the right decision in dumping you.
There’s a great mind game you can play with her, by exploiting that doubt she feels. If she’s missing you really bad, how much will it hurt her if you look like you’re doing absolutely amazingly, looking and feeling the best you ever have in your life? Ok, so you may not want to make her hurt, but if she sees you at your best she’ll be missing you like crazy and all the things she hated will fade from her mind and be replaced by the things she misses. All you have to do is look your best and take control of your feelings, and put on your “happy face” anytime you’re in public.
These two things alone are great for greatly improving your odds of getting her back, without demeaning yourself in any way. In fact, if you “put on a show” for long enough you’ll actually start to feel the way you’re trying to present yourself. This stuff doesn’t just help you get your ex back, it helps you get over your breakup pain as well!
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I think what would help would be doing some good things in life and try not to be slutty and just be cool in life and then just enjoy it. Also, I was bullied in school as well (In middle school and somewhat in HS). So I know how you feel.
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If hes mature then he wont. if hes not then forget him and move on. c’mon girl your gorgeous.
dont change for anyone.
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People judge you from what you are RIGHT NOW. In case your guy overheard something bad about your past, I’m kinda sure that he wouldn’t mind it and will focus at present of you. Moreover, the ‘bad’ stuff that you think you were,in the past, it wasn’t really a bad thing, it’s not like you had sex with 50+ guys, had been a sl*t or something, you just didn’t wear make up and were being yourself, naturally, what’s wrong? It’s those guys’ fault that bullied you like that, it should be them who deserves to feel bad and not you. Maybe now you dress up, wearing make up and looks hot, but don’t do it overly. It’ll be perfect, because some guys don’t like something too much or too less. Don’t be depressed about that and just be nice at present, that’s enough. Good Luck.
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Don’t let this guy get to you. Your a special person for being able to overcome your fear of being bullied. (Hope that doesn’t sound too cheesy) Anyway try to move on, think about why it would matter to you soo much if he reminded you of the past. That means that he’s stuck in the past. Sad for him. Just take a deep breath and get your mind onto other activities. Be the stronger and better person.
Hope I helped.
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i dont think you should worry about anything.
even if he overhears something about how you used to be
it shouldnt matter cuz ur not like that anymore.
you should leave the past behind.
and you should try your best to ignore what everyone else says.
that boy is obviously stupid and has a problem.
there’s not gonna be, or ever has been a person that everybody
in the whole entire world likes.
theres always gonna be ppl trying to make you feel bad,
of making fun of you.
but you just have to learn how to deal with it
during that situatuin.
dont pay attention to what they have to say becuz if they see you
upset or crying they’ll feel like they did what they wanted,
they’ll feel accomplished.
and you want to show them that what they do isnt gonna affect you, atleast not in a negative way, it’ll only make you stronger.
im sorry for writing such a long message, just trying to help,
i’ve had this happen to me b4.
good luck with everything.
o and i hope it works out between you and that other good lookin guy.
lol
: )
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he will only judge your past if he is a big douche so you shouldnt like him if he is and you are beautiful no matter how you look. im like the ugliest person but im funny and cool so i have many good friends. so dont think all people are douches
haha good luck my friend
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my brain
Take it from me. Don’t worry about what ANYONE thinks. Not the hot guy, the popular guy, the girls from school (either school!!), or the people you may meet tomorrow. Just enjoy being you.
With that said, you are not currently in a position to date anyone. For real. You’ve gone through a lot of changes recently, you need time to adjust to who you are today. 99.9% of the girls and women I know (including myself) have gone through some kind of a change around your age, and ended up in stupid relationships that if we were thinking clearly, we would have never ended up in. Take this time to embrace you.
Get to know God, and find out what He wants you to accomplish with your newfound confidence. There’s a reason He allowed you to remain in your shell for so long, and a reason He chose right now to bring you out. I’m glad to read that you havent changed your wardrobe to sluut clothes lol. Right now is just a time for you to really hear from God. All that other stuff is just distraction.
I’ll be praying for you, and you pray for you too
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erm…if the guy is a player…just because he is gorgeous doesn’t mean that he is a great guy. going for the cliche here but he needs to be nice in personality too.
sorry that’s just my opinion on guys…sorry…
the more important thing is this guy who caused the scene. that is so lame that he’d do that to you and i am really dorry it happened. i know what it feels like to be bullied throughout school. you sound like you have gained confidence since you left school and this event has made it fall again. all i can say is you need to remember that you are better than him. if he cannot let go of what is gone and in the past then he is just pathetic, so i honestly say SCREW HIM! i know that is just my opinion and it is easy for me to say that because i am not in your situation. i wouldn’t let it get you down though. and don’t let it stop you going out and having a good time. enjoying yourself can help boost your confidence.
and coming back to this guy…if he lets something from the past affect his views then he isn’t worth it.
this may help, it may not, i just wish you all the best and i hope that things work out. i hope that you get a bit of your pep back and do not feel so upset.
good luck with this guy and sorting things out
Kaz
ps: high five for not dressing slutty!!!!
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Well, people don’t just give out compliments. You must be looking pretty good. That guy was just a jerk. A BIG ONE!!! As far as the guy you want to start seeing goes, if he’s worth it, he won’t care.
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I don't want to go back to being a loser?
So.. I was really unpopular at school. I went to a fee paying school right the way through but I moved for my final year. I was very unhappy in the first school and was bullied on a daily basis. I was slightly overweight and never did my hair nice or wore makeup and I wore glasses. Just because I didn’t see the point in making any effort. I always was told I was "pretty" however, and since starting university I have lost 2stone in weight, and made a big effort to re-invent my whole look. I wear trendier, sexier clothes and will not leave the house without make up on.
I get a lot of male attention and am told that I’m ‘hot’ and ‘beautiful’ which makes me feel great, but I still have confidence issues. I’m not a skinny girl. I am petite with curves.
Anyway, the other night I was out at my favourite club and this guy who gave me a hard time at school caused a scene with me outside and his friends got involved. It made me so angry, and I took a panic attack. My heart was racing and I could hardly breathe. I have not experienced this in over 2 years, when it used to happen a lot when faced with bullies. I thought it was normal then because it happened so often, but now I realise it’s not normal and I found it overwhelming to feel it again. Everyone else tells me how I changed and how great i’m looking, when he digs up something from 2 years ago.
I am feeling scared about going out now incase the guy I really like overhears something about how much of a state I used to be. He is really cool and popular and I just don’t want him to judge me for my past.
I have been feeling low since this incident. Almost depressed. I just want to bounce back but the fear has got to me.
I know this is really long and seems silly, but I’d really appreciate some of your helpful advice
i have liked the ‘popular’ guy for about 8 or 9 months now. he’s a player but he went after me and i was not really interested at first. i think i screwed things up with him but don’t know. i don’t want him to hate me more if he does at all. he is just the most drop dead gorgeous guy i have ever seen and i can’t get over him. he makes me melt completely and nobody really compares! bit pathetic……. also i don’t dress slutty….
Thanks for all the amazing answers I’ve had so far