How do u heal a broken heart?
And don’t tell me to move on. There was this guy that I really really liked and I thought he liked me too. I know I shouldn’t get my hope up but I did. Then one day he told me he didn’t like me. I didn’t ask him out or anything he just plain out said it.
if your a teenager, focus on school, and work. get a part time job if you don’t already have one. spend time with friends, family. maybe do some volunteer work. pretty much keep busy. it’s a process that obviously takes time, but you’ll go from thining about him multiple times a day, to once a day, to once a week, a month.. pretty soon, you’ll be moved on. don’t rush to much into another guy until your over him forsure though, it wouldn’t be fair to the new boy or him.
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wow he seems like a jerk..i think you should stick gum in his hairHHAHAAHHAAH
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"how do you heal a broken heart?"
by finding another guy that can be your bandade to the wounds the other one caused…
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deal with it
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with glue
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you don’t you forget its broken.
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my mind
hearts don’t break ’cause if they do, you’d be dead
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Get some closure.
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get 2 know him better maybe u can just b friends
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hang out with your bestfriends and jus slowly think things out
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breakups ? lol
you need the following:
1. paste
2. masking tape
3. George Michael CDs
4. vodka
5. Rainbow Brite sleeping bag.
6. yo-yo trick book.
7. lottery tickets.
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There are a few ways..
1) Take your time, but its the same concept as moving on.. So you wouldn’t want this
2) Develop that love into hate, not something I would do, but hey, it heals it at least
3) Don’t think about him anymore, he’s just not worth it
4) Find another guy to really really like =]
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you realli cnt do anything besides move on. if he straight told u that he didnt like you then wat else r u going to do. unless you want o convince him to like you but thats not going to easy at all. you’ll find someone that likes you and you’ll eventually get over this guy and like them.just give it some time.
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You tell yourself things like "Boy, I am sure glad I found out now, instead of after I spent ten years with the guy". or something similar. …and then move on.
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well; first of all, your gonna have to hear this
get over it
and ya secondly, there are plenty of fish in the damn sea.
yea im sure that you can find a bf even better than him anyway..
so thats the advice and keep ur head up!
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if your a teenager, focus on school, and work. get a part time job if you don’t already have one. spend time with friends, family. maybe do some volunteer work. pretty much keep busy. it’s a process that obviously takes time, but you’ll go from thining about him multiple times a day, to once a day, to once a week, a month.. pretty soon, you’ll be moved on. don’t rush to much into another guy until your over him forsure though, it wouldn’t be fair to the new boy or him.
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trust in the lord he heals everyone! that’s one man that won’t let you down.
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"Moving on" seems like shallow advise, but that unfortunately is all you can do…put one foot in front of the other over and over, and let time heal this wound. If you’re lucky. Even if you don’t get over it, you do get through it.
Good luck.
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The only thing that heals a broken heart is time……… and a friend with plenty of tissue and a good ear for listening ..
unrequited love is the worse sort, I hope that you find someone else , someone worthy of your love and affection, you never know they may be nearer than you think..
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having your heart broken sucks and its a kind of pain i wouldn’t wish on anyone. the way that i got over a broken heart was lots of ice cream and chocolate, and then other than that all you can do it wait, give it him, you’ll get over him and find someone a million times better. and it also really helps to cry, i know that sounds really babyish but crying really helps you get those feelings out, writing it out helps too, that way its no longer in your head, put what you’re feeling into a song or a poem, i don’t know what you are into as far as all of that, but use the pain as a motivator. hope this helped.
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Don´t talk to him, don´t spend time with him. The more you do spend time with him, the longer it takes to heal. It´s like poking a stick in an open wound. Also, replace thoughts of him with meaningful activities, like volunteer work, spending time with other friends, taking up a hobby. Just keep busy, and eventually you´ll find yourself not thinking about him anymore. Basic principle: Replace the negative with the positive.
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tequila shots and long hours listening to sad country and western music.
then with the clarity that only comes with a tequila hangover start a list on the reasons why you were so gone on this guy. if you can not come up with 100 reasons ask the question,"what was i thinking?"
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sorry to say but just about the only way is to find a guy who likes you while liking him back as well. i used to always think that there was nobody else like this girl i used to like…but then i finally realized how many girls are out there. trust me, its not over just because of one guy. there are TONS more.
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it would take time heal your heart, but you can do something that make you happy, like doing some of your hobby. Look him down and if you could: stay away from him. Do not listen to a sad song (broken heart song) but cheers music.
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Please Read This, It Will Help You, I Have answered this question so many times, Can i have 10 points for the trouble?
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You two break up–doesn’t matter who does it. You immediately panic and begin chasing, begging, pleading, harrassing, phoning, e-mailing, IMing, stalking (okay not all of them, just pick whichever one you did). Most of us will likely do some things during this stage that will make you cringe when you think back on it, say after about 3 months.
You lose weight. You neglect yourself, your house, your job (how many hours do we all log on this site while we are at work?). You drive your friends and family crazy talking about the break up. You cry at the drop of a dime. You can’t even comprehend that your life might not again include that "special person." You begin putting them on a pedestal, forgetting all of the nagging things about them that used to drive you crazy. In your mind, they have become omnipotent, all encompasing, all everything.
You convince yourself that you are a loser who just screwed up a relationship with "the best person in the world." You KNOW without a doubt that you will never EVER love like that again. You know no one else will come along who even comes close to being as marvelous as your ex (excuse me while I chuckle to myself here). You wear a sad face for the world to see (you should see my work ID taken 2 days after my breakup, it’s just pitiful).
They (the ex’s) remain steadfast in their denial to get back together. Many of them leapfrog into new relationships, immediately being exclusive with a new person. For those that do leapfrog, they appear to just "replace" you with a new model. All of the things you two used to do, they now do with someone else. Bowling, cuddling watching television, motorcycle riding, antiquing. Whatever you two did, likely they will just begin doing those things with someone new.
You hear about them and their new life. You are desperate for any crumbs of news about their life. Many of us make things worse here by trying to use manipulation to get them back–yet they stay away from us like we are the plague.
For those of us who do still have contact with our ex’s we begin selling ourselves short. Doing stupid things like allowing them access to our bodies and then wanting to strangle them afterward when they remind us that "Sex does not imply hope."
You, in further panic mode, begin frantically searching the internet using phrases such as "break ups," "divorce stopper," whatever. You stumble upon this site, pay your money because your curious and lo and behold, you find all of us folks in various stages of this whole breakup bullsh*t.
You voraciously read the posts. You search for news of those who "got their mates back." You’re on the site constantly. You’ll read the books and think "Ah I can do this. I can get this person back." You begin your "no contact" and for some of us, this will get a reaction from our ex’s. For the rest, no contact is and will continue to be what you’ll get and receive.
Time goes by. You’ll do some stupid things. You’ll call your ex when you shouldn’t. You’ll call when you’ve had to much to drink. You’ll call even after 50 people on this site tell you not to. You’ll show up on their doorstep, hating yourself all the time. Then you’ll come back to this site and ask everyone to tell you why you were so stupid as to do whatever it was you did.
Then you’ll get serious about no contact. It’ll hurt, but you try to stick to it. Here’s the turning point for most. For those folks who have contact with their ex’s, your no contact will either bring them sniffing curiously around or they’ll be somewhere high fiving their friends thanking the God’s that you haven’t called.
Now’s the tough time. Nothing but time works. Everday the ache in your heart grows a little less. It’s only nanobits that it dies down by. But everyday it will get slowly better. You’ll have setbacks. You’ll run into your ex accidently. You’ll run into mutual friends who’ll tell you something about your ex that’ll have you high-tailing it home for a good cry. You’ll see your ex with their new "friend." You’ll receive a phone call or an e-mail from your ex who "doesn’t want to be in a relationship but still wants to be friends (with benefits if you allow).
Here’s another important part. You need to truly sit down and truthfully look back at the relationship and understand what you did to help with it’s demise. If you miss this part, you go through all the suffering for nothing because Buddy, you’ll be back here again. This site is to teach you about you. To teach you how to be a better partner, a better person. Missing that lesson is detrimental to the whole process. It’s the REASON that you’re going through this. God (or whatever your higher power is) needed you to learn something about YOU. Don’t miss out on the lesson.
Then one day you’ll smile because you didn’t immediately check your answering machin
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