Had my heart broken and im afraid of getting attached now?

| By get back ex | In my heart is broken 

Iv finally met a guy that i have a connection with but im freaking out cuz i feel oh it will eventually end. I like him a lot and he is ten times better than the guy that broke my heart. We even have the same birthday! But im having a hard time getting attached to him.

Some words of wisdom or advice would be awesome.

forget about the other guy. put your broken heart aside and give this other guy a chance. you only live once. go for it. your gonna get your heart broken…but dont be afraid to give someone you heart. you cant just love one person. your love expands. you can give it to many people. just dont be afraid.

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3 Responses to “Had my heart broken and im afraid of getting attached now?”

  1. Loryn E on March 8th, 2010 10:20 pm

    forget about the other guy. put your broken heart aside and give this other guy a chance. you only live once. go for it. your gonna get your heart broken…but dont be afraid to give someone you heart. you cant just love one person. your love expands. you can give it to many people. just dont be afraid.
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  2. brooke. on March 8th, 2010 10:25 pm

    You just have to live day by day. Don’t over analyze it, but take it slow. You don’t have to get fully attached just yet, just be careful. If he is truly a good guy, then you will be okay. Hearts are broken everyday, healing has to take place eventually.
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  3. Sumomo on March 8th, 2010 10:41 pm

    First off, I am sorry the guy before broke your heart. A breaking heart can be one of the worst pains in the world.
    Secondly, leave the other guy behind. Not all guys are like him, remember that. I was in the same situation you were about 10 months ago. I was so afraid to open up to my current boyfriend, but you just gotta learn to trust them…I’m glad you have a connection with him, and have gotten to know him. The more you know about him, the more you know if he’s likely to hurt you or not.
    One of the songs that helped me open up was Shine by Keith Urban, and it was shown to me by my boyfriend. I still love that song, and listen to it whenever I’m down to know he’s still there for me. Listen to it, it might help you a bit, and imagine it’s coming from this guy you like.
    Good luck hun! :)
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    I’ve been through the same thing.

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