CHILD SUPPORT

This Was Just A Quick Rant On My Child Support Issue.. I Currently Owe $28,000 In Back Child Support For 2 Children That I Have With My Ex-Wife.. She Has Received Over 13,000 Over The Past 13 Months..

The Reason I Was So Behind On My Support Payments Was Because At One Point A Judge Ordered Me To Pay $500 Per Week.. The Other Reason Is Simple I Was Stubborn And Upset With My Ex-wife Not Letting Me See Our Children So That Put Me In A Hole.. I Was Incarcerated More Than 6 Times For Non Payment And In Turn That Put Me In Debt…

I’m Far From Perfect But I Also Know That My Ex-Wife Thinks She Is, And Thinks She Is Above Everyone Else..If Your Poor You Should Still Be Able To See Your Children, She Uses A Restraining Order To Threaten Me So That I Get Scared And Don’t Bother To Come And Pick Up The Kids..

Who In There Right Mind Does That??? Who? An Angry Person That’s Who..

People In Bergen County NJ Need To Know That Child Support Does Need To Be Paid, But At What Cost, I Was Chained To Murderer’s When I Went To Court.. I Saw A Lot Of Crazy Stuff…

People Need To Stop Taking Good People And Putting Them Further In Debt While Placing Them In Danger At The Same Time…

Things My Ex-Wife Has Done

1. Lied To The Police And To The Judge About Me

2. Has Blogs About Me On Her Myspace That Only Represent Her Opinion On Matters

3. Doesn’t Allow Me My Visitation Rights Even Though I Have Joint Custody

4. Contacts Woman I Have Dated Through Myspace And Requests Them As Friends

5. Hasn’t Let My Oldest Daughter Who Is 12 See Her Brother Or Sister In Over 2 Years

6. Not Letting Me Talk To My Children On The Phone

7. Telling Me To Sign Over My Rights And She Will Not Ask For Support

8. Leaves Messages Telling Me Not To Send Gifts For The Children Through The Mail

9. Tells Me The Children Who Are 8-9 Don’t Want Anything To Do With Me

10. Says My Children Are Scared Of Me? (why would they be scared of me)

Parental Alienation is what my ex-wife has been doing for sometime now and it needs to stop..

parental alienation is when 1 parent targets another parent and through subtle or very overt measures changes the child’s love for one parent..

since my ex-wife is remarried i feel she is trying to make it look like i don’t belong in the picture..

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25 Responses to “CHILD SUPPORT”

  1. Villesanti on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    This is bad on her …
    This is bad on her part. She is basically tearing apart the relationship you should have (by right) with your children. Even if you fall behind on some payments, she should be flexible and let you have contact with them. It is clear that she has a vendetta against you!!! Like my father used to say, You never know your wife until she takes you to court.

  2. nraised on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    my son is grown, …
    my son is grown, and my child support is paid off in full, but i went thrue as well. i lost my licens and was arested one time with my eaght year old son with me and we had to go to the sharif office where the dep. thretend to paint an X on my back and use me for target practice if i ran. that was inf ront of my son that was crying, and i wasnt even missing my payments at the time. i have never comited a crime and thats just wrongggggggggg

  3. philbbg on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    @bklyn390 Your …
    @bklyn390 Your father does not owe you legally. He owes your mother or legal guardian back child support. The father does not pay the biological child; just the legal guardian or custodial parent. My father owes my mother over $75,000 in back child-support. My mother raised me w/o my BF’s help. She gets any reparations from her lawsuit. I get no extra money. HTH’s

  4. mandi1marie89 on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    did you post your …
    did you post your new video?

  5. mandi1marie89 on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    I agree?!!!???!!
    I agree?!!!???!!

  6. cpadill5 on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    I’m pretty sure …
    I’m pretty sure that many of these people going through this trouble never thought they’d wind up in the child support system. You can’t ever be 100% sure you will meet the right woman.

  7. Elestareus on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    I feel sorry for …
    I feel sorry for the kids than I do for the mothers or fathers. so it is hard to see mothers hating and fathers doing the same. in the end the child is the one that is hurt. that is why I will never have sex or get married until I meet the right women.

  8. Nathangotscrewed2 on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    The courts & the …
    The courts & the scumbag mothers out there knows there is 2 ways to beat a father down-take away his kids and steal his money then they make the father think he is worthless & a deadbeat. This is ABUSE!! The money is not monitored because the courts assume it is going to the kids but we the Fathers know it goes towards their cigarettes, cell phones, Friday nights out of whoring around. To all Fathers out there be brave and keep the hope alive don’t let them take that away from you too!!

  9. POKERPRONJWSOP on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    @bklyn390 I would …
    @bklyn390 I would look into some legal aid for those answers..

  10. Velcroisaripoff on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    When they say “it …
    When they say “it is all about the children”…………..why do they not monitor where the money is being spent? Why is it they the money does not have to be PROVED to go to the child, if it is all about the child?

    Also why is it that to raise a child when you are divorced costs 3 times the amount?

    Also…why do I not get to claim dependants on my claim or a tax credit. I pay over 12,000 a year after tax on 1 child. Why do I get nothing for supporting a family member? Whats going on?

  11. bklyn390 on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    i just turned 20 …
    i just turned 20 and im in collage. my dad never elped me out and i deff need money since im still am going to be going to school. i know that the age limit is 21 and i have untill jan but since he hasnt helped me and if i put him though this will he have to pay for all the years they he hasnt paid me and also since im going to stillbe going to school can it exceed over the age of 21 in the state of newyork???

  12. protestparole on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    I have to agree …
    I have to agree with you. My husband is in a very bad situation with his ex she met a inmate while she worked at a prison. He pays his child support but she is the same way and punishes him the same way by alienating them from him now because he is protesting the inmates parole HE IS A MURDERER WHO HAS ONLY SERVED 15 OF HIS 25 YEAR SENTENCE. What is my husband to do? all the court says is go back to court like you said who has the money. VIEW OUR VIDEO.

  13. POKERPRONJWSOP on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    @randy1464 she was …
    @randy1464 she was blocked for not answering the question. I answered all of stilllaughings questions yet they couldnt answer one of mine..

  14. randy1464 on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    i believe in free …
    i believe in free speech but she was just trying to attack you, she needed blocked

  15. POKERPRONJWSOP on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    Stilllaughing75 has …
    Stilllaughing75 has been blocked..Now go stalk someone else.

  16. cronicxxxup on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    @stilllaughing75 …
    @stilllaughing75 hey your a 300 pound u know nothing what you are talking about you thiink it only goes 1 way think.

  17. POKERPRONJWSOP on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    @stilllaughing75 …
    @stilllaughing75 Again you wont tell me your name. You say you dont care but you keep commenting on everything. WHAT IS YOUR NAME?

    Otherwise dont post here anymore have a NICE day!!

  18. stilllaughing75 on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    You know who I am. …
    You know who I am. Being called a coward from the lord of cowards doesn’t really mean much.

  19. POKERPRONJWSOP on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    @stilllaughing75 …
    @stilllaughing75 Stop worrying about my spelling.. You DUMB COWARD. You wont even say who you are.. COWARD

  20. stilllaughing75 on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    dumb is two …
    dumb is two words, sir.

  21. POKERPRONJWSOP on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    @drobles394 Not …
    @drobles394 Not true.. DUMBASS

  22. drobles394 on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    he didn’t pay for …
    he didn’t pay for years. dumbarse

  23. POKERPRONJWSOP on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    @Velcroisaripoff …
    @Velcroisaripoff That’s why the celebs get ripped apart. Your ex with your children had become accustom to a certain way of living. Because you do earn a good amount of money they feel your ex should be entitled to it. What there really saying is you should have never left the it would be cheaper to keep her.. Oh waite the money is for the children.. YEAH RIGHT!!!

  24. Velcroisaripoff on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    I make a good …
    I make a good amount of money, but they take and take. The thing that annoys me is the fact that even after 10 years, if you make a better life with another woman , your ex can come back and take more….WHY!!

    I pay more than a child needs in the form of $1750 a month…..how on earth can you justify that…..I know it is not being spent on my child…..it is impossible to budget unless they spend $700 on clothes a month and $500 in food plus the other costs.

  25. randy1464 on March 10th, 2010 11:21 pm

    yes i think she is …
    yes i think she is an ex of your. she really doen’t care about the kid’s, she only care about the money they bring in. Yes i can say she’s bitter because she’s been following you for 11 years. I can say it’s really hard to come back from mistakes you made in the passed but you can do it.

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