Would you try to win your back your ex is it a pointless effort?
December 12, 2009 | 1 Comment
I’m so lonely. I want her to like me, but she’s with some dude. I always get dumped.
Hey there’
It’s not a pointless effort.
If you decide you want to get back with your ex, you must be ready to face not only what has gone wrong with the relationship, but also your part in the break down of the relationship. If you made mistakes then don’t beat yourself up for that. All of us make them, it’s what you do after the mistake that’s significant.
7 Tips To Get Back With Ex
1. So sit down bother yourself too much with what you see as your ex’s mistakes, leave that for the future. Only concern yourself right now with what you can influence.
2. Whichever mistakes you find in your past behavior, can they be forgiven? Don’t be too eager to get down on yourself and believe that your mistakes are basically unforgivable . You would be astonished at the situations that couples find themselves in and that they later recover from. So don’t think that your mistakes are beyond forgiveness. There is always hope!
3. Try and pin point what was happening in your life at the time that led you to make the mistakes, particularly if it was completely out of character for you. Remember what I said about facing hard truths, if you want to get back with an ex, then you have to do this.
4. You might discover that you were under certain stresses and strains. Perhaps you were under threat at your job? Or you weren’t physically feeling yourself? Or perhaps there were other family matters . Whatever you find when you look back at what happened, you will eventually need to sit down with your ex and explain in detail just what you have found.
5. If your mistakes arose from you just being thoughtless or selfish, then this is something about you and your character that can quite easily be fixed. It will take ongoing monitoring but if you are sincerely committed to getting back with your ex, then it is going to be beneficial.
6. When you have come to the point where you have begun to gain perspective about your mistakes, then call your ex and arrange to meet. It is usually better to arrange a face to face meeting somewhere public and neutral because then there is less chance of either of you becoming emotional.
7. So, make sure that you concentrated on what you want to say. Apologize and ask for forgiveness and then listen with great attention to what your ex has to say.
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All the best!
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December 9, 2009 | 5 Comments
okay, I am only 19. Our relationship ended a couple months just a few days shy of our 1 year ani. Now the thing is she helped me out of a deep depression ranging from when I was just in my early teens. Now I find myself thinking about her almost every hour of the day. I miss her so much. Anyway to win her back?
thanks
-S
P.S. we broke up due too much stress and strain due to my depression/ death of her grandmother
It sounds to me like you need to solve your depression problem first and then maybe you will have a chance with her again. She is going thru a rough time now and needs a shoulder to cry on. By staying with you, she stays depressed and brings you down further. It would do you both some good for you to solve those issues from the past before trying this relationship again.
Is it best to try to win your ex back by becoming friends again first?
December 5, 2009 | 4 Comments
Yes you should definitely become friends first. Anytime you are trying for a second round of a relationship, you should take things very slow!! It is a natural process that will work on its on, there is NO NEED to rush!!
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December 4, 2009 | Leave a Comment
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December 1, 2009 | 3 Comments
my boyfriend of a year just broke up with me last week. I need to find the absolute best way to go get him back. what do I say or do? help? suggestions?
Hi
Winning back your ex boyfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
if you desire to get your ex back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can’t achieve the goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don’t pester your ex boyfriend. Guys just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously make phone calls to him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your lovely ex back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it will be great to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start exercising and try to eat healthy foods. When on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
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Hope it helps.
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