How should I go about getting my ex back?
March 12, 2010 | 26 Comments
About 3 years ago I dated this girl. It went well for a while, but I was so smitten I became clingy, and she broke it off. So I did all the things people always tell you to do after a break-up. I dated all kinds of other girls, even had a couple of one night stands.
Eventually I stopped being bitter and me and my ex became friends again. We would talk everyonce in a while and everything was nice. But then a year ago she got mixed up in a bad relationship, and she ended up breaking contact with everyone she knew.
Which brings us to now. She finally got herself out of the abusive relationship and is in the process of reconnecting with all of her friends that she didn’t speak to during that time.
She and I have started talking again also. I’ve figured out that I still have feelings for her, and that I always have. I know, that I can’t just jump in, and that she needs time to heal. But how do I start laying the ground work, and also find out if she would even want to get back together?
When someone is in the recovery stage of a relationship of any kind (even family), I personally experienced a serious degree of distrust to just about everyone… particularly the other sex if it is any sort of abuse from a relationship that is the wound to heel.
As a result she is in a void and it would be pretty possible to benefit from this void and fill in the gap of being "a person in her life"… or as you prefer to have it said: "Get her back"
But here is the tricky bit… it really doesn’t go far, brings more problems in many dimensions to both sides, mostly to you.
My personal advice would be for you to try to fill that void in with simply being someone that honestly cares for her and is not hiding anything… as she most possibly needs it a lot. As this relationship evolves and you guys get to spend some time together, eventually moments shall come up where she may remember some good times you had together, or moments that you would feel it to be just right to again honestly tell her about your feelings.
Unfortunately the one thing you can’t do is take the first step until she does… tell her how you feel and invite her (there is a significant difference between inviting and asking. Declare the difference in your words)… BUT do it with an open palm where she is completely free with choice.
Last of all…. I do not know why you guys split up in the first place. But if it was something bad and especially your fault; I would strongly advise that you concentrate on not repeating it and presenting to her a reason to believe that you have changed to a more agreeable level.
I wish you the best of luck. I hope it all goes better in this try.
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March 10, 2010 | Leave a Comment
Every girl/boy wants a guy/girl who can understand and connect with her/him. There are sound rules for pursuing a girl/boy after a break up. This video will try to explain them and show how to deal with your ex. Get UR Ex Back by using these 10 simple and commonsense rules.
1.) Donât be afraid to call her/him.
2.) Send her/him an email from time to time.
3.) Donât date other girls/boys.
4.) Donât forget her/his birthday.
5.) Analyze her/him.
6.) Donât be jealous.
7.) Be on the lookout as to how she/he acts with other guys/girls.
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March 9, 2010 | 3 Comments
My ex girlfriend broke up with me like 3 days ago cause i dident want her talkin to other guys. i know how friends turn into friendly friends more friendly than they should be. she got mad and it seems dumb to me but i woul like to get her back we talk still but she want date me anymore its crazy cause she said she was so in love with me and then she let some little crap break us up.
i think you over reacted about the talking to guys thing. you should trust her if you like her as much as you say you do. and i’m sure u talk to other girls, so y cant she talk to other guys? as long as she doesn’t do anything with them. and she might not like you as much as she said she did if she’d break up with you because you said u didnt want her talking to other guys, but i dont know her so i cant say that really. if you really want her back, tell her you over reacted and you want her back. if she still likes you she’ll be happy. or you could make her jealous by going out with another girl. good luck getting her back!
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March 6, 2010 | 7 Comments
I feel like im getting desperate, even tho i dont show it, and i really want my ex boyfriend back. we broke up about 4 months ago but we go to the same school, have classes together and alll that, and i havent gotten over him. he made me feel soo good, how can i get him back even tho i feel like he lost interest in me?
Hi
Winning back your ex boyfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back check these 3 recommended steps:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of your negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can’t get your goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you don’t want them..
2.Don’t annoy your ex boyfriend. Men just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously call him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It’s better to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When looking good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.Anyhow, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).
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I hope that you will get your ex boyfriend back soon!
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March 3, 2010 | 1 Comment
After my ex girlfriend and I broke up she got a new boyfriend not long after. About a month or two later she calls me and says she misses me alot and she said she is somewhat unhappy with her new bf. She seems really confused about whether or not we should get back together or not. What should I do or say to get her back? Should i continue no contact? Should I stay friendly with her? Or should I try to convice her to come back?
hiya michael, she made the first move to get in touch with you,so that tell you she still loves you, so just talk to her,tell her how you feel about her,and that you miss her,then if you want her back then ask her.she rang you for a reason,and i would think its to get back with you,so ring her and have a chat,see what she says then say what you want to say.good luck.xx
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