Anybody have any stories about actually getting an ex-girlfriend back?
Wow. Still depressed after this after 8 months. I have sent her the occasional email/call and tried to include her in stuff. The last time she talked she wanted to meet to exchange some stuff, but I got fed up with finding a time to meet so I just gave it to a friend of ours. Should I call her on her birthday? Its coming up in a few weeks.
Chief, I know it hurts, but move one with your life. The best way to get over a chick is to find another one. 8 months is a long time. My wife and separated 8 months ago, 6 months ago I got involved with another woman and it helps me tremendously. I still miss my wife, but I have to live in the present, not in the past. I feel ya though.
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for get about her before you find yourself with a restraining order against you
BTW, Paprocki is so gay…the mothership is not coming for him….they left him here for a reason…..kind of like the way we dump sewage into the ocean
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no man leave her alone and go find another fish cuz once she wanted to exchange some stuff that was closure for her
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if you really want her back…find out what went wrong and try to reconcille it. My husband and I went through this. He got me back after many hard problems. He changed and so did I. Just keep in contact with her too.
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Well your never going to get her back if you keep pursuing her like you are. You should start talking to another girl, maybe this will make her want you again. Also you might find you like the new girl better. If i were you i wouldn’t even worry about your ex.
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Dude its an urban legend. I’ve never seen it happen before, but I’ve seen some good tries. Give her the call and go for the gold and don’t look back, just don’t regret it whatever you do.
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Ask yourself why you two broke up in the first place. If you think its something you can work past then pursue her.
Definitely send her roses on her birthday or b 4! Roses represent love. Write a sweet short poem on the card. Let her know how you feel.
Be honest w/ yourself and her…and you can’t go wrong! How is she gonna know how you feel unless you tell her! Actions speak louder than words! Remember that! If you say your gonna do something..do it!
GOOD LUCK!!
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Chief, I know it hurts, but move one with your life. The best way to get over a chick is to find another one. 8 months is a long time. My wife and separated 8 months ago, 6 months ago I got involved with another woman and it helps me tremendously. I still miss my wife, but I have to live in the present, not in the past. I feel ya though.
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Do you know why she doesn’t want to get back with you? Or, why did she break up with you? If you aren’t sure, next time that you call her, ask her. But, if you do know, then, try to fix those things. If you really want her back, then, you would do this! Yes, calling her on her Birthday would be nice. Also, tell her that you are willing to change anything in the past, that she didn’t like, and do more of things that she did like! This should work! I know that my ex-boyfriend is going through the same thing as you! He wants me back, but, he likes stuff that I don’t like (hunting, says bad words ect.). I wish you good luck in trying to get your ex-girlfriend back. Thanks, and good luck,
~ Future Vet
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Yea I have a story for you. Once upon a time there was this wimp who wore a skirt and thought he was a man. He wanted to win the love of a lost love by acting like a total sap. Time after time there was rejection after rejection and the only thing that grew stronger was the seem on his girdle. One day everything snaped and he cried like a little b*tch until he finally realized it is time to move on.
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Most definitely you should call her on her birthday, plus you should send her a card. American Greetings has some nice E-cards, or drop by your local Hallmark and pick up a nice one to snail mail. Include a hand-written personalized note inside (you can do that with E-cards, too).
But it sounds like maybe she’s moving on. Be prepared to settle in and start getting past this; you may have to move on, as well.
But definitely send the card and when you call, ask if she wants to go out for dinner or whatever to celebrate her birthday (don’t use "whatever" in your invitation).
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no ……don’t call her on her b-day. that will make her think. i have seen this kinda thing before….and honestly it’s the only way i have seen that works. don’t be around for her. be smart. run away from her til you catch her. get it?
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I was married my ex wife twice does that count?
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