after a year and a half my girlfriend left me.how do i get her back?

I’ve been goin with this girl for a year and a half we been through many ups and downs.this girl has always had a type of reputation.she dated many people always hopping around from boy to boy.even tho she was like this she chased me for about two years before i agreed to go out with her.we started off as friends with benefits.had the intentions of any man.we then moved to a full blown relationship. during the second month i made a horrible mistake and cheated on her with my ex.

it was only a kiss but it hurt my girlfriend so much.she also knew i was still talking to my ex.I stopped messin with my ex because i realized i had a special girl in front of me.My girl forgave me and we moved on from that.we went through many other things though.one was that she was living in an abusive home.her grandma was abusing her mentally a physically.she didnt even feed her. my girlfriend had no real family. i was her everything.she was mine to.i did every thing i cud to help her.including bringing her my own food everyday so she cud eat.she loved me to death.her grandmother was so evil and one day beat her up and then told the cops it was the other way around.my girl went to a detention home.it hurt me so much i did everything including going to her court in order to give support and help.she felt she had no one but me and her brother and sister that lived far away.but i was her only real family.my fam also excepted her as well.

she got out of the home and was on probation.i supported her evrystep of the way for almost 2 yearswe went thru so much she even almost had my child but had a miscarraige.

her brother moved closer and took her in after a long battle between the grandmother and the courts.her probation officer confirmed she could stay.and that week she dumped me.broke my heart.she said we could b friends and we went out a few times after that but she said she didnt want to b hurt by me anymore and said thats it.

ive been talking to her on and off for 3 weeks till eventually she told me to leave her alone.i did all the wrong things and chased her begged her and pleaded.she tells me she neva forgave me for wen i cheated on her a year ago and now she goes out with somebody else.on her my space it says she is in love with him basically.what do i do how do i get her back?i love her to much to let go

I’ve been dating this guy for about 2 years but in the first 3 months he cheated on me with his ex. We broke up but after his begging and pleading we got back together. He would still talk to his ex and after many fights he finally stopped talking to her. To this day even when everything is good I still feel hurt that he did that too me. I dont think i’m ever gonna really get over it and from what i can tell I dont think your ex will either. You just need to give her space and start over as friends if thats possible. You just need to be patient.

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One Response to “after a year and a half my girlfriend left me.how do i get her back?”

  1. Meesh on March 8th, 2010 10:25 pm

    I’ve been dating this guy for about 2 years but in the first 3 months he cheated on me with his ex. We broke up but after his begging and pleading we got back together. He would still talk to his ex and after many fights he finally stopped talking to her. To this day even when everything is good I still feel hurt that he did that too me. I dont think i’m ever gonna really get over it and from what i can tell I dont think your ex will either. You just need to give her space and start over as friends if thats possible. You just need to be patient.
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